Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Select The Perfect Sexy Lingerie For A Gift By Doing A Bit Of Research

By Colleen Campbell

You would love to get the woman in your life some lingerie to let her know how sexy you think she is but you're scared of making the wrong selection. Ease some of the pressure by doing some research for your sexy lingerie purchase. Before you start researching intimate apparel consider whether you and the woman you'll be giving this gift are truly in a personal relationship. It takes some thoughtfulness to select the right piece of intimate clothing.

Lingerie covers a great variety of attire so keep an open mind when you shop since sexiness may be defined differently by each of us. If your partner wears a large t-shirt to bed she's going to have a different idea of what is sexy than a woman who is comfortable in thong panties or a teddy or something that reveals more than it hides. It's all about being aware of here style and comfort level.

To get a clue of what makes the woman you will be giving feel sensuous, feminine and sexually desirous you could simply ask. However, if you want to be more subtle and surprise the gift receiver you can do some research through simple observation. Finding out whether she likes nightgowns or negligees or flannel pajamas, or thong panties or frilly bras can be as simple as paying attention to the kind of lingerie and intimate clothing she buys herself.

Still haven't got a clue as to kind of intimate clothing you should purchase? Look at her wardrobe. More conservative outerwear may mean the same for her unmentionables. Perhaps you find she is into more revealing clothing that shows off her figure or shoulders or cleavage. If your partner is shy, she may enjoy wearing sleepwear robes or a cotton night gown with lacy or ribbons and bows. On the other hand some women feel sexiest when they are wearing something more revealing like sheer underwear or thong panties or a teddy or lacy negligee.

After settling on the type of intimate wear you think will please her now you've got to decide what color and size to get. Choosing the correct size is important especially with this type of purchase-after all the entire purpose of buying lingerie or other intimate clothing is to let the receiver feel sexy not trampy or overweight. Sizing can be difficult so you may want to peek at the tag on similar clothing. If you're shopping at brick and mortar stores then you can ask for help from the salesperson. Choosing a color is as easy as selecting a classic like black or blue or red or you could simply select some lingerie in her favorite color.

Sensuality has a lot to do with a woman's self image so if you buy her a piece of lingerie be sure it reflects her and not your fantasy. If you buy her something that does not fit her style she may never wear it. Take your cues from her wardrobe and what you've heard during your conversations or observed. Doing your research should help you get a gift that she'll appreciate and you'll both enjoy.

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